This generation of parents is the first to face the challenge of helping our children make the most of their virtual space while keeping them safe in it. If you're still getting your footing in virtual parenting, don't worry. The following tips can help you enable your child's online experience to remain positive.
1. Become a net-savvy parent
The best safeguard against online dangers is being informed. Jump in and learn the basics of the Internet-read articles, take a class and talk to other parents. There are lots of useful websites to help you learn the basics and stay current on the latest technology. You don't have to be an expert to have a handle on your childr's online world.
2. "Chat" with your kids
Develop an open dialogue so that you can talk with your kids about the benefits and dangers on the Internet. Cultivate an interest in their online activities-their favorite web sites, online games and interests. And don't be afraid to ask your children who they are talking to online and what they are talking about.
3. Agree on a game plan
Formally agreee on your family's guidelines for using the Internet. Post them near the family computer as a reminder. Ensure that your kids know to never share personal information on the Internet and that they should tell you about any online activity or contact that makes them uncomfortable.
4. Protect your computer
Take advantage of the software that exists to help parents manage their children's computer experience. In only a few minutes, parental control software can block inappropriate websites, restrict the amount of time that your kids use the Internet and monitor their Instant Messenger chats to protect against predators.
5. Explore the Internet as a family
With a game plan and a protected computer, you can now encourage your family to take advantage of all that the internet has to offer. Take a genuine interest in what your kids are doing and stay engaged with them online.